As you work on your piece of writing, you probably crave feedback. Feedback can be very helpful! But, this post isn’t about that. :p
This post is about whom NOT to ask. Yes, there are so many ways to give terrible writing feedback that is unhelpful or worse, discouraging. Even though I’ve read thousands of terrible edits and review comments, I can fit almost all “bad feedback” into three buckets. Just three! These are the three types of people not to ask for feedback.
1.The Cheerleader This reviewer loves everything you do. They just want you to keep going, keep writing, keep shining! You got this! It’s invaluable to have support from the Cheerleader. Their hype is irreplaceable! But! The Cheerleader can’t offer specifics. “You’re awesome!” It’s a fact, but it’s not specific.
2. The Underminer This reader wants you to fail. Seems obvious: don’t show your work to this person. Unfortunately, for a variety of reasons, a lot of us DO show our work to this person. When we do, we find their comments (intentionally or not) are designed to make your work feel like a struggle. Discouraging.
3. The Well-Intentioned Amateur This person isn’t an Underminer because they don’t want to see you fail. They just have a lot of opinions and no expertise. #sorrynotsorry. They offer scattershot feedback on everything from the plot to the characters to basic grammar mistakes!
Do you recognize these people?
If you’ve ever given up on a piece of writing after getting feedback from a colleague, friend, or family member, chances are you’ve encountered at least one of these readers.
So. Should you just stop showing your work to anyone?
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